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BlogWhole30 Whole30 and Non-Scale Victories!

April 24, 2016by Courtney Elise10

I’ve been a professional yo-yo dieter for as long as I can remember. Sometimes there was successful weight loss, other times not so much. However, the end result was the same in both scenarios: I always gained the weight back and I always felt worse about myself when I couldn’t stay committed.

Until I met Whole30.

The non-scale victories were probably the outcomes I was most hesitant about. How was cutting out cupcakes and pasta going to make me happier? Skinner maybe, but happier? Meh. Looking back I am thankful for my skeptical way of thinking because it has made this learning process even more worthwhile. 
Around week 3 of my first whole30 I went to a dinner party with my husbands family, some of which didn’t know about my W30 journey. Our cousin looked at me & said, “Courtney, you are glowing, you look healthier than I’ve ever seen you.” {Keeping in mind, that I found out I had strep throat the day after Thanksgiving of 2015, and by New Year’s Eve I had come down with a double ear infection, a stomach bug and an upper respiratory infection with no help from 4 rounds of antibiotics.}
That night I revisited my wedding pictures, taken just a few short months before and it became all too clear. Being unhealthy had become a part of who I was! I expected to be sick all of the time…that was my norm, and unfortunately being sick became a defining factor of my character. That’s what people thought about me “oh she has the sniffles again.” It’s embarrassing and that became such intrinsic motivation for me to finish W30 and stay compliant so that the glow could continue and the sickness wouldn’t haunt me anymore. 

Now, I am several weeks post Whole60, reintroduction and I even threw in a Whole9, not because I wanted to see the number on the scale get lower, but because Easter threw me off a little bit and I felt like I needed to get back on track. THAT is a non-scale victory. Wanting to eat right and exercise to feel good not to look good. Don’t get me wrong, I haven’t sworn off weighing all-together, but thankfully, whether I am happy or content with where I am in my life is no longer dependent on a number on the scale, so without further ado, here are my non-scale victories.

Physically, my clothes fit better, heck, even my shoes fit better. W30 has taught me a lot about inflammation and I had no idea that so many of my joint problems were enhanced because of the food I was eating. I am not nearly as swollen or puffy and I’m far less bloated all the time. The beauty of it is, some of these these things I didn’t even realize I was (like bloated) until I wasn’t anymore. I was able to stop taking my multiple prescription allergy medicines and narrow it down to just one to help me fight this crazy pollen, and I was even able to taper myself (with medical supervision) off of the antidepressant I had been on for 4 years. During the Thanksgiving to New Year’s Eve “plague” I had, my blood pressure was dangerously high for a twenty-six year old and with clean eating I was able to bring it down and stabilize it without the assistance of any medications.

My job requires me to get up really early in the morning which usually is accompanied by dark circles under my eyes and the strong desire for an after lunch nap but since I’ve been on W30 I not only fall asleep easier but I can tell the quality of sleep I get is vastly improved (with no more dark circles in the mornings). My energy level is sustained throughout the entire day, even through my work out. I feel more alert when I am supposed to be, and when I am sleepy I am able to go to bed.

Comparing before and after pictures I can see that my skin was very pasty, sticky looking, and honestly, kind of gross, and now it’s clear with a natural, healthy glow. Plus, if I do break out it clears up FAR faster than before. Some of you who know me personally will find this hard to believe, and to be honest I am not exactly sure how this happened but… I’m more coordinated. Yes, still clumsy but I used to stumble easily, slip in the shower, was very unintentionally careless but that’s even gone away. My mind seems less fogged which is one of those situation where I didn’t even realize that I wasn’t as clear-headed as I could be until I was again.

It looks like I had just lost sight of what being healthy truly meant and with the guidance of Whole30 I was able to start the trek back to, well, towards, the person that I really want to be.

I’m sure it goes without saying that my self-confidence level has skyrocketed. Sure, knowing that I’ve lost weight helps, but that’s not what I am proud of the most. I am proud of the discipline that I’ve developed, the desire to better myself and to be an inspiration and example to other people. My unhealthy food cravings seized and preparing my own meals has become a passion. I have learned that I am in control over food and whether or not I put it into my body. Food is no longer a coping strategy or best friend, or enemy.  I have learned how to cook clean, delicious meals that make me stronger, healthier, happier. The shame and guilt are gone, the resentment of skinny people with high metabolisms…gone. My perspective has changed completely. My lifestyle has changed completely which is probably the best non-scale victory of all. The strict and conscious decisions I made at the beginning of my first W30 were very by the book because I didn’t want to mess up… but now, they’re practically second nature.

 I don’t gravitate towards the dessert table anymore, to be honest, I don’t even think about it. At the grocery store, I spend most of my time in the produce section and I don’t feel like my life is going to end when I say no to pizza.

I am well on my way to the best “me”that I can be, and to get exactly where I want to be, I know that, it starts with food. 

Courtney Elise

Courtney Elise

10 comments

  • Amber Lynn

    April 26, 2016 at 12:05 pm

    Way to go! Keep up the great work!

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  • D. Jill

    May 3, 2016 at 4:28 pm

    I'm so happy you're feeling it in ways other than the number on the scale! I hope I can get there.

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  • Unknown

    May 3, 2016 at 4:50 pm

    Let's maintain together. As my beloved doc says, "It's a slippery slope!" I'm on W30/2D8 and can't believe how much better I feel. Great blog

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  • Courtney Elise. ♥

    May 3, 2016 at 7:31 pm

    As long as you keep it up, you will reap so many non-scale victories! It's SO worth it! If you have any questions at all please let me know! I'm always interested in new blog topics!

    Reply

  • Courtney Elise. ♥

    May 3, 2016 at 7:32 pm

    It is a slippery slope and is so hard to learn how to maintain that balance; BUT it gets WAY easier after practice! Keep up the good work! You'll keep reaping the benefits ❤️

    Reply

  • Anonymous

    May 3, 2016 at 11:37 pm

    Wonderful to read your story! I have started another round of Whole30 (only did one last year) and was actually thinking of making it a Whole60…

    Reply

  • Courtney Elise. ♥

    May 4, 2016 at 3:47 pm

    That's what I did the first time! After 30 days I didn't feel ready for reintroduction so I made it a whole60 instead! You have to set yourself up for success!

    Reply

  • Sara

    May 6, 2016 at 12:06 pm

    Hi Courtney! Thank you so much for sharing your incredible journey and struggles with food. I look forward to following-I also requested to follow yo on Instagram (sararae64).

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  • Courtney Elise. ♥

    May 11, 2016 at 5:47 pm

    Hey Sarah! It is my pleasure! I am so thrilled that my struggles may turn into strength for others! They sure are for me! Thanks for the follow on instagram! I hope you find lots of helpful things and inspirations on there 🙂

    Reply

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